20 Things You Don’t Owe Anyone

1. You don’t owe anyone a justification for your values and your priorities.
2. You don’t owe anyone a yes when you want to say no.
3. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your relationships, whether lovers or friends.
4. You don’t owe anyone assistance with their happiness journey at the cost of your own.
5. You don’t owe anyone a debate around your political views especially when the other person’s mind is made up.
6. You don’t owe anyone an apology when you are not sorry, and you would make the same decision again.
7. You don’t owe anyone a rationalization about why investing in yourself is important
8. You don’t owe anyone the meaning of what you believe in.
9. You don’t owe anyone a change in your appearance just to please them.
10. You don’t owe anyone friendship, especially when they do not share your values.
11. You don’t owe anyone a negative mindset so that you can commiserate with them.
12. You don’t owe anyone access to information about your life that makes you uncomfortable
13. You don’t owe anyone gossip material about other people just to fit in.
14. You don’t owe anyone your time for their projects or for things that matter to them unless they matter to you too.
15. You don’t owe anyone the commitment to try something “new” just because you were asked.
16. You don’t owe anyone a safe place for constant complaining and dwelling in their poor choices.
17. You don’t owe anyone an answer other than the truth to prevent them from being uncomfortable.
18. You don’t owe anyone your services as a crisis counselor unless you are actually a crisis counselor.
19. You don’t owe anyone false compliments just to make them feel better.
20. You don’t owe anyone anything that doesn’t make you feel good and goes against your gut instinct.

Came across this article online and found it really meaningful for what the writer has wrote in it. Thank you for making me learn from this. 

Cr: http://www.powerofpositivity.com/20-things-you-dont-owe-anyone/

Alive museum with the Bestfriend

Pictures speak a thousand words.. 

So there it is, a thousand words... Enjoy! 

This is like a party place. #clubbingmode

More selfies okay since the mirror is awesome.. 

Oops. I saw something I shouldn't!

Don't play play okay. I'm very powerful!

This is damn difficult to pose!!!! But I did it! 

亲爱的 Spider-Man! 

Kena punch for nothing.. So sad. 

Hey. Stop leaking please. 

Feels like I'm dropping down to infinity levels :/

Pose with the 可爱的企鹅.

Sigh. Sucks to be short Lor.... ><

Superman. Faster save me!!! I'm totally dying here. 

How about learning some ballet? ^_^

All hail to the princess •_•

I'm a mermaid ~

Being in the mummy's womb like a small kid

Crushed

This one I love the most! The typical ship shot! Asked a tourist to help us snap this! Of course must get a picture with my 好朋友吗。

Okay. Going to alive museum is fun, but prepared to be tired out also! Cause I don't know why we felt really really tired when we completed the exhibits. And we heaved a sigh of relief. Haha upon knowing that we were gonna complete.

And I swear! I wouldn't be the curious person anymore, guys.. Do go to the powder room if you do go to the Alive Musuem. It's interesting (; Mm hmm..

I only pre-slelected a few pictures because the main reason is due to the fact that I'm too lazy to blog with my computer and I'm just blogging with my iPhone on my bed. So, hehe, that explains the why lor.. 

Why I could go out on a Thursday during a normal working day is due to the fact that I took leave? Very tired from work, took a long break cause it's the long weekend? 

Weekly Post

Last Thursday (09/04), Hui Ping came to look for me to have lunch. 

The reason why she was able to come down that day was due to the fact that it was her off day. Psst: she's working at a hotel and her off days are on schedule basis, so, it was that day on her off day that is why she's able to come down. 

I am really so touched to be able to have such a friend despite the long period of time not meeting and all. But still being able to stay in contact and be like able to talk about anything and not having any awkward moment. Such friendships are rare to come by I should say. 

So, we went to a nearby café near my workplace which is called Kitchnette and the food was alright :) 

We talked, we chit chat, we caught up with one another's busy life. But then again, as you know. One hour is so freaking fast, and by the time you know it, it was already time for you to be going back to the office. It totally sucks!!!! :( Maybe the next round, it's much better to meet at night instead...... 

This is the brunch set that Hui Ping ordered!

And the following day was Friday!!! Yes!!! Super duper awesome feeling for it being a Friday. Woohoo. It's like, yes finally it's the weekends. I liked my hair that Friday because.. I went to the hairdresser to get it washed and it looks like my hair was rebonded all over again. But note: it wasn't. It's because the hairdresser blew it dry and hence this result. 

It's gonna be another week of work. And what I can't wait for is Thursday again. But this coming Thursday, I'll be back again to man the helpline.. Oh well, honeymoon period is over, back to serious business. Okay okay. I get it.

Thursday // day before good Friday

That day was kind of like a Friday feeling if I ain't wrong about that! Oh wait, it was because the following day was Good Friday! 

Hence, the level and focus for work was like 10/100. Pardon the restlessness. 

Which explains why I dragged one of my close temp staff (aka tco in iras) to snap pictures with me! 

And the pictures... Oops. Please don't judge. Haha! 

Took this selfie of myself trying really hard to frown that day too because my boyfriend always say that I can't frown and I wanted to prove to him that I can... 

In the end, his response to me was... "Can you please not act cute?" I was like this was supposed to be a frowning face and no intentions of acting cute at all. Oh well.... It's actually a good sign that I can't get that frowning face right?

Okay. Let's get to the point why I would be posting pictures up here. The reason was because on that day, my hair was really nice! A rare good-hair day ocassional hence I needed to take more nice photos isn't? Girls will always be girls... 

Why I had such a good hair that day? Cause the previous night when mum went to the salon to dye her hair, I tagged along and told the usual hairdresser to give my hair a wash. And after blow-drying my hair, it looks like how it is in the picture! When I went to work, people even asked if I rebonded my hair again!!! Like am I even that rich? I don't even wanna spoil my hair lor.... Please..!! 

Lee Kuan Yew's Passing

Disclaimer: do note that this post is all based on my personal opinion and it does not mean anything offensive at all.

So on Monday 23 March 2015, we got the news that late Mr Lee had passed away on Sunday at 3.18am. This was a really sad news for Singapore because we have lost a great founding people like what a lot of people have said. Its true, although I am not in the era of my parents or so....  but thing is if ain't for Late Mr Lee Kuan Yew there wouldn't be Singapore right here and right now. For all the things that we have right now, thank you Mr Lee.

So, definitely, not just by talking over here.... i did pay my tribute to him... at the community centre (on Monday) due to the fact that my RC is going to pay our respect and so I went down along with them.. and another trip was going down to the parliament house (on thursday) because my company gave us time off of 2 hours to head down. And its like, we were pretty worried as we saw that the waiting time was 8 hours or so... it was really bad the situation of thd waiting time. However, thankfully, we managed to get a waiting time of 4.5 hours and get to pay our respects to late Mr LKY. Thankfully..

For the fact that on Thursday, I actually have a meeting with Lapat and Rebecca (iras tcos). It was Lapat's last day on Friday and we wanted to have this dinner since like forever. And so we did. Felt really exhausted due to the queuing up at parliament house but this didnt deter me from meeting them. Everything needs to be prioritised. And so I allocated it well.

Basically that's about it. And I find that this week has been a rough week. Let us just hope the Late Mr Lee Kuan Yew legacy continues on from where he left it by the the younger generation. Thank you.

73/365 (2015)

I didn't realised that we have already passed 73 days of 2015. This is far too quick! To be honest, weekends always pass so damn quickly and all that we know, another week has passed again. This is like only one of the few posts I have posted in 2015. Have been too busy to come onto social network, or for the fact that WORK everyday just drains you out. You barely have that few hours when you're home and the next thing you know is that you're back at work. It's a really mundane routine. Searching for other options for fear that I cannot make it for my confirmation test the second round. I really do wish I can pass it and leave the company, that way people won't think that I'm incapable (as told by my friend) and that really made sense though. I will try my best for that then.

I really find that trusting people is sort of like toying with your feelings kind of thing. Know why I am saying this? Well, because I totally trust the buddy whom I first went in to work and she was like the first person I came to know of. But it turns out that, she really hated me because she finds me pretentious and the way that I behave irks both my buddy and one of my clique for lunch. I don't really get that because issue here is that you guys are always saying me so, in order for me to defend myself, i would definitely have to behave in that sneaky behaviour isn't? But this incident has also taught me something. That is not to be like this anymore, I've changed. Thanks to this two person who have made me realized that I should grow up on my end too. And also, addition to that, I am no longer that naive to put that 100% trust in people anymore. Just find that, we do our own shit and at the end of the day, they wouldn't be the ones who would be spending the rest of the lives with you, so why bother? Told my family and boyfriend about it and their only advice is, "Just don't care them lor, you have us what" This makes everything better.

I don't know what I have in time to come, but I am looking forward to it. Whatever has in store for me would definitely make me a better person. That's all I really know about it for this period of time I have spent my life in the working world and being an adult. Experiences learnt here would really make you miss school a lot because those were the days where you need not worry about shit and all that you have to do was bother about your exams. If I ever have the opportunity, I would want to go back and take my degree again. Because, after all, I really do want to escape from this adulthood for a short while.

"In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."

Sundays (Lazy day)

Sundays...

It's meant to be a lazy day to begin with. Pure lazing around, lying down, blogging, using the computer, playing some handphone games or otherwise maybe at the same time scrolling through tumblr might be one of the options for lazy Sunday.

I really love the weekends but it's kind of sad how it always comes to an end so fast and for all you know, Monday is here again. Damn damn sian. Really don't know what to say. Time is catching up far too fast.

7/365 (2015)

Sometimes, I think a lot. Not because I want to. But it's because I'm being forced to do so... If you get where I'm coming from. 

Anyway, it's the new year. What are resolutions? I dare say that this year, I didn't make much of those. It's just too hard to meet such stuffs when you grow older. You'll come to realise that all these are just bullshit and reality isn't what you always think it would be.

People backstab, people are two-faced and no matter where you go, there will never be someone who would be real/true to you. Because, this is adulthood. 

Welcome to adulthood. -applauds loudly-

I am tired of not being able to click with others, just want to be alone and all alone. People are just getting right in my nerves. By that, I really mean it. 

Everywhere..... Everyone..... They'll never be true to you except for your FAMILY. Alright, enough said. 

The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. Maybe they always have been and will be. Maybe we've lived a thousand lives before this one and in each of them we've found each other. And maybe each time, we've been forced apart for the same reasons. That means that this goodbye is both a goodbye for the past ten thousand years and a prelude to what will come.

Staycation with Baby

Cuz the staycation was really relaxing. A pity we didn't get to go to the gym, swimming pool as we didn't have the proper attire. Took photos as shown below! :) 

Okay. I have the room pictures... It's nice!  

Find this hotel very cozy. And I really liked it. The deluxe resort was definitely worth it just that I didn't fully utilise it because my neighbours were smoking and this is a non-smoking compound. 

South Pole

Very very cold at work lor. That's why wear hoodie. Bo bian else later shiver to death how? 

Looking forward to tomorrow because only working half day in the morning then after which its long weekend already. Took leave and also..... Gonna skip Dnd on Saturday because I have better things to do rather than go to dnd :) 

Emotional roller coaster

As I mentioned. Like what my blog title states. I am having emotions that are a little bit crazy when I look back at it. I keep feeling scared due to the bed bugs at my room crawling around and then that bothers me a lot for the past few days. 吓到我在我的客厅里睡觉，你说可怜不可怜。Well, but thankfully dad has called for the pest control to come and they did some fumigation thing for both the rooms and they did take some effect on that and helped us too! But then, my boyfriend unfortunately got so worried with the bed bugs and all that he doesn't want to come my house. 弄得我好伤心。但是我也不能勉强啊。The bites from them are so itchy that I totally understand or else I wouldn't even be sleeping at the living room. 

Then, last Saturday, I went to biyfriend house for dinner as per usual like always. And then what's special about this week is that I got to stay over at his house! Okay. Reason is because it rained, couldn't go home and another reason was due to the bed bugsssssss. Zzz.  And guess what? I was so worried that his mum would be pissed off the next day because she didn't really like the idea of that and then this actually happened. Oh my goodness please. Totally felt like it was a dream but it isn't at all. 

Weekends selfie! 因为每一个人都喜欢自拍！

Rants

I've failed my test. And I'm out lookin for another opportunity for me. I don't know what/how would this be better for me, but it's better than just sitting right here doing nothing. If you do get what I mean. Because to be honest, if I could fail the second time, it could mean that i would fail the third time because at the end of the day I might not be cut out for this at all. Oh what a pity I should say. :( 

Life these days has been peaceful except for the fact of my stupid temper which automatically becomes a 小姐脾气 as and when it wants and this always makes people angst because of this. I don't blame them because it can be quite annoying at times though. If I can't stand it, what more can others right? 

A little bit sian because my boyfriend tells me that he wants to work for the weekend.. But then again right..... Look at the screenshot of the convo that we  had... 

Need to think of life as an adult. Think like one because this reality sucks a lot. 

Really hate it but what more can I say right? 

Test // slacking

Hmm.  Hi, I'm back. To blogging because I'm a little bit too bored. Just took my tax exam course (which they claim it to be called basic tax course) but trust me, I had a hell of a time studying it and I had hell of a nervous breakdown two days before the exam. I felt so suffocated and couldn't barely concentrate at all. Got so worried. That feeling where all you felt is that you would fail. But thank god, I got over it. Totally a relief please. This test was terrible, all the feelings and emotions I had was 100000000x worst than in secondary/polytechnic. Win liao lor. I'm glad it's all over and here I am slacking using my tablet 😊

Got to wait for 2 months later for the results to be out. Till then... 😖

Oh hai, good morning to you. Am supposed to be going to work but here I am taking a selfie. Hahaha! Oh please, thank god my mum is busy doing some things else I would have been nagged at.

P.s// I look like I do not have eyebrows :( 

Kay, off to prepare for work now. :) 

Busy Monday

Okayz. I didn't like a single bit of today. Why? Because I was struggling half the time trying to figure out as a newbie who have just started officially on her own today. Yes, I try to ask questions around..... However, I'm also afraid I would get people on their nerves. It's not easy. Oh wait, whoever said that learning was easy must be plain crazy. 

I'm glad my friends got the call from HR. And no, it's not because I'm desperate for that few hundred dollars when I think back. It's to help them get a full time job. So that we are all able to work together. It's getting boring to be all alone. Hence, I'm so happy that they are coming for interview on Thursday :) wishing them all the luck. Especially for Samantha where we had plans for studying together and also working in the same place, everything mapped out nicely! Oh god, please let everything go as planned please. 

Welcome to Work Life!

Time passes and how fast it has been. I've started work on the 02/06/2014 and tomorrow would be the fourth week at work. Meaning to say, it's been a month already. I wouldn't have imagined time to pass so quickly. I wouldn't have thought that I would be out working.

However, it's nice. This feeling of getting your salary every month. Although not much, but better than nothing at all. I believe when in time to come, you work harder, everything would be better, that is life for us. 

Start of September

You know that you're always the one, my love.

It's September!!!! 

Our new helmets! Both for baby and me :)

We both got our new helmets and yes, we spent like a bomb on it. Like about $230? But yet, Baby say that it's for our safety, so paying this amount is actually nothing at all because our safety comes first. The reason for getting these helmets is mostly because I kept dozing off on the bike every Friday when he fetches me back home and this caused Baby to be very worried as he does not want to see me fall off the bike someday and have a broken chin. Hence, the reason why the helmet is there. But, it's very uncomfortable wearing the full face or maybe it's just that I'm not used to it. It feels like it kept on rubbing on my face and it's like I can feel the rub of friction on my face. Damn terrible can? Totally not used to it yet and it's so hot!!!! Can't imagine that when the bike is stationary how hot it would be in the afternoon. Whining a lot, but still happy because I finally got a PINK helmet like after umpteen years which is damn awesome. Okay, I take back, not umpteen. It's just 1 year plus but it's been so long since I kept asking for a pink helmet and I finally got it. Baby never fails to meet the requests that I make.

Anyway, yesterday night which was Sunday night and where Baby should be home early, he didn't go home early yesterday because my parents were both not at home and I'm all alone at home. Then, he went home at about 9pm? Which was super late from the usual because usually when he goes back at 8pm, he would have reached home at 9pm already. Sometimes, I feel super blessed to have this boy around me. Tolerating my hot-temper and everything.

I had a very real dream yesterday night and hoping that it does come true some day. And that is, baby actually proposed to me. I actually said yes. Really hope that this day can come soon. Where we can be together like forever and annoy one another forever. I don't mind having such an understanding boy where he can always give in to me no matter what and me giving him whatever I can. I mean, relationships.... What do you expect right? Give and take. You can't expect to always be taking and not giving. The other party would be exhausted being a single party doing the job. That's what I've learnt.

Had my 2nd driving lesson today and I swear, I'm not cut out for driving. Reason being, me always not being able to brake smoothly and when I turn the steering wheel, my hands get jumbled up. Another thing is also I am not good at controlling the steering wheel. That's what the Uncle who was my instructor told me. Then I kept saying okay and I also got scolded. The Uncle say, you say okay but you never change your mistakes. But, I was trying my very best to not make the same mistake, BUT!!!!! NERVOUS WHAT, NERVOUS OF CAUSE MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE RIGHT. Today I also learnt how to park and drove on the road. Best lesson ever today but my leg is feeling so tired.

Tomorrow is another day of driving and no UT tomorrow! Can rest for 1 day :)

Last day of lesson

We are together for the longest time ever. Jenn, meeting you @ y1s1.

Miss Teeny Teh. Strictest faci, but became the best at the end

Mr Philip Ang. Panda faci that's fierce but also fun at times

My clique for this semester <3 td="">

Mr Lee Wei. The everything also don't know faci

The whole TPAM cohort. 60 people, cool or what

Miss Lynn Yue. She's like a friend rather than faci.

These few photos sum up the whole of my year 3 semester 1 in school. This would most probably be the last time I study because I wouldn't pursue University anymore as I do not have the money to do so even though I feel like studying. So pathetic but it's alright. I've enjoyed myself in these whole three years in Republic Polytechnic and I'm so glad I've learnt how to suck up with people I do not like and pretend like everything's fine in front of them.

And thanks to the clique whom we have lasted so long together. Thanks. Those time we spent at lunch sitting down, gossiping, talking shit, I'll definitely remember. Please do not go MIA once internship starts, but still stay in contact because these 6 months, we are all going different way and it is so hard to talk everyday like how we do so in class.